OH MY GOSH! That fixed it! Sue, you're brilliant. I've watched/admired
your comments/expertise for a couple years now and really appreciate you
taking time to understand my issue and - - of course, you had the answer!
Thanks again.

"Sue Mosher [MVP-Outlook]" wrote:

When I actually close Outlook, I get the "are you sure you want to delete
the items in the Deleted Items folder? yes/no". Is there any way I can see
what's about to get deleted before I say "yes" to that?

Say No and then go look at the items in the folder.

How would I see
stuff that was merely changed and not deleted (like when I accidentally type
in a field in Contacts and don't realize it)?

Outlook does not track changes to individual items.

Would changes show up on a
"about to be deleted" list of any kind?

No.

Is there ANY way to write-protect the contacts file at all?

No. Maybe what you need to do is turn off the in-cell editing feature of the view: View | Arrange By | Current View | Customize Current View | Other Settings.
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Sue Mosher, Outlook MVP