mnature wrote:
I would like to ask you directly, then: What is the best way to talk to
someone who seems to be rather clueless about databases?
is there a better way to proceed?

I can only repeat repeat what I have said up thread:

Explain in which normal form (if any) you think the OPs design is
currently, which of
the normal forms he should be aiming for and - to give it the practical

element lacking thus far - what you think he needs to do to get his
design to your recommended normal form.

[Use] phrases to make you advice more practical:

"By doing x you have violated 1NF."

"You could y and your design will be in 3NF."

Jamie.

PS ...or do as I do and don't give advice pertaining to normalization
g.

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